Domestic Abuse Statistics Tell a Bigger Story — So Why Is Only One Side Used in CMS Reform?
When evidence is selective, policy becomes unbalanced
The Missing Context in the CMS Debate
Recent briefings by Gingerbread and partner organisations have placed domestic abuse at the centre of Child Maintenance Service (CMS) reform.
That matters.
Domestic abuse is real, serious, and must be addressed.
But there is a growing problem in how the evidence is being presented:
Only part of the picture is being used.
What the Official Statistics Actually Show
According to the Office for National Statistics:
- Around 2.2 million women and 1.5 million men experienced domestic abuse in the last year
👉 https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/bulletins/domesticabuseinenglandandwalesoverview/november2025 - Approximately 6.5% of men experience domestic abuse annually
👉 https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/domesticabusevictimcharacteristicsenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2025
Further analysis indicates:
- Men make up a significant proportion of victims, often estimated at around 40%
👉 https://mankind.org.uk/statistics/statistics-on-male-victims-of-domestic-abuse/ - Around 1 in 6–7 men experience domestic abuse in their lifetime
👉 https://www.ncdv.org.uk/domestic-abuse-statistics-uk/
Why This Matters for CMS Policy
The current policy narrative focuses heavily on:
- Abuse against receiving parents
- Non-payment as a form of control
- The need for stronger enforcement
But the official data shows clearly:
Domestic abuse is not one-directional.
The Risk of Selective Evidence
When statistics are presented without full context, it creates:
- A skewed understanding of how abuse operates
- Policy responses that assume one type of victim
- Systems that overlook harm in other forms
The Other Side That Isn’t Being Discussed
While non-payment is rightly scrutinised, there is little discussion of:
- Disputed or incorrect arrears
- Enforcement applied before disputes are resolved
- Payments already being made but not recognised
- The impact of enforcement on Paying Parents
When the System Itself Applies Pressure
The Child Maintenance Service has the power to:
- Deduct earnings
- Enforce payments
- Escalate action administratively
If those powers are used on incorrect or disputed figures, the effect is clear:
Financial pressure is applied without full scrutiny.
A Missing Voice in Parliament
Organisations like Gingerbread have a seat at the table.
But where is the structured representation for:
- Paying Parents
- Those disputing arrears
- Those affected by enforcement error
The Bigger Question
If domestic abuse affects both men and women…
And the CMS affects both Receiving and Paying Parents…
Why is only one side being reflected in the evidence used to shape reform?
The Wider Context
This issue cannot be separated from the broader questions around arrears and enforcement:
👉 https://the-4billion-pound-lie.blogspot.com/2025/10/the-4-billion-lie.html
👉 https://the-4billion-pound-lie.blogspot.com/2026/04/the-double-cost-of-cms-117-million-in.html
👉 https://the-4billion-pound-lie.blogspot.com/2026/04/selective-scrutiny-who-gets-heard-on.html
👉 https://the-4billion-pound-lie.blogspot.com/2025/10/gingerbreads-misrepresentation-of-child.html
Conclusion
Domestic abuse statistics tell a bigger story than the one currently being used in the CMS debate.
Recognising this does not diminish any victim.
It strengthens the integrity of policy.
Final Point
Domestic abuse is not one-directional — yet current CMS reform discussions are built as if it is.
Until the full picture is recognised:
- Policy will remain unbalanced
- Safeguards will be incomplete
- And reform risks addressing only half the problem
This isn’t about denying abuse.
It’s about ensuring the evidence used to shape policy reflects the reality of everyone affected.
Read more:
The Double Cost of CMS: £117 Million in Deaths — and the Hidden Cost to the Taxpayer
Child Maintenance Service UK – The Truth Behind the System
How the State and Gingerbread Framed Innocent Parents As Deadbeat Dads
The Dishonesty of Gingerbread
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